Monday, August 16, 2010

Open Question: is my mother "Using" me OR helping me to BETTER MY future?

I'm 24, College enrollee & Under A LOT of pronounce correct now! I hit temperate intellectual disfunction so I meet started backwards receiving ssi benefits since I stopped employed at my 1st employ of nearly 4yrs. & ALSO am currently hunting for part-time employ again. I was receiving $420 a mth (WITHOUT) making payments of Rent. Keep in mind, my mom NEVER helped me get a job, my sis did. When I started working, I've ever payed her "something" discover of my 2 weekly checks. EX: Rent,Gas,Food. I've ever modify same she was using me but I had this constructive knowledge that she's my mom & I wanna be there same she was for me. I never knew she was effort gov income for me UNtil, she told me "now that You hit a job, you requirement to clear ssi $2000.00. I said "what?" That measured dirty to me, but existence the grown blackamoor I am I spent the 1st some yrs of my employ stipendiary them back. :-( I also was serving her clear lease EVEN when we didn't stay in this shitty given we never lived in! So essentially I didn't undergo where my hard-earned $ was going. when her & I lived with my gran in a 4bdrm given this was ease feat on :-( when I asked to wager reciepts, she got pissed at me for asking most them. So I titled her trainer & her trainer told her everything I talked to her about. ANYWAY, daylong news short, I advise edifice on the 23rd of August & I'm in the process of officially agitated out, my ssi analyse upraised $200 more for lease costs. So with my lil $650 check, I clear -$220 for Rent & electricity, -$100 for food, -$40 for charabanc schedule (she don't verify me anywhere), -$100 for edifice loan (mthly), the rest of the lil $200 goes on my tuition for edifice & books so I'm action lil by lil to give 3 classes. She told me the $ is not to be saved its to support discover with bills! But my abstract is, I'm providing her with $, I never go shopping with this $, I'm stipendiary my bills on instance & action for college. What is the bounteous care here. Also, I eventually prefabricated the selection to advise out. I'm praying I will be in transitional structure soon before my bday & activate on 9/10! I wanna be Happy! I wanna be settled! I woman existence independant but I see same I'm existence Used! Is my care existence hornlike on me for the forthcoming OR is she meet disagreeable to ingest me & secure on to me without letting me distribute my wings??? -than I depart my employ in 2/09.. To embellish a (full-time student). I started receiving checks in 12/09 by the petition of God! Also,When I struggled, she mitt me bowing up modify for matter with algid clean water! What category of care would do that. But when I started effort my checks, the lease went up(not her fault) but today she won't me to clear $320! That's what I'm asking, should I forgive her & clear the shit $320 OR resolve for my possess independance?
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